tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23471698.post7287272840172788276..comments2024-02-06T07:55:24.303+00:00Comments on Pai: Pregnancy after stillbirth: 24 weeks 2 daysSarangahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03545162612237984546noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23471698.post-68032683634884698192015-04-21T21:11:18.885+01:002015-04-21T21:11:18.885+01:00Sea: Thank you for the comment. Writing this shit...Sea: Thank you for the comment. Writing this shit out is helping keep my head clear, I think.<br /><br />Theheartseesclearly: Oh there is so much jealousy. There was a birth announcement at work yesterday and I had to really focus to not fall apart and to rein in the green eyed monster. I'm still trying to ignore it tbh. Then a friend brought her 6 month old into work today - he's lovely, but there's so much emotion behind meeting a baby for the first time.<br />I don't know how to change my feelings, and today, 4 days after I wrote this post, I don't want to. Fuck changing my feelings, I can act however I damn well want.Sarangahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03545162612237984546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23471698.post-2733948493258046372015-04-21T19:08:49.608+01:002015-04-21T19:08:49.608+01:00We had this discussion with our counsellor today. ...We had this discussion with our counsellor today. In our neighbourhood, our gardens are not fenced in. My husband and I are struggling to see the babies around us, while trying to understand why our son is not there with us. It is jealousy. It hurts. I agree that we can't live like this forever, but I do not know how to change it, either. We feel what we feel (even if we do not like it). I definitely do not think it should be up to someone else to tell us how we should be acting, though.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23471698.post-32900627504842139072015-04-16T01:02:07.094+01:002015-04-16T01:02:07.094+01:00Few things are more terrifying to people than hone...Few things are more terrifying to people than honesty in the face of tragedy. Honesty is scary, painful, and can be weirdly healing in many ways. It's so very, very true that often the best way to be completely honest about <i>anything</i> is to just write about it -- which is exactly what you're doing. Keep on writing! :-)Sea-of-Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00813600516703661200noreply@blogger.com